To mom and dad, read this and drilled it in your head :)

 

Hello all,

My entry today is on parental issue. Read this and think. Maybe whenever you feel so angry and dissappointed with your young kids, this 'heart to heart' commandment will remind you some important facts...i said this to myself too.

1. My hands are small. Please don't expect perfection whenever I make a bed, draw a picture or throw a ball. My legs are short. Please slow down so that I can keep up with you. 

2. My eyes have not seen the world as yours have. Please let me explore safely. Don't restrict me unnecessarily. 

3. Housework will always be there. I'm only little for such a short time. Please take time to explain things to me about this wonderful world, and do so willingly. 

4. My feelings are tender. Please be sensitive to my needs. Don't nag me all day long. (You wouldn't want to be nagged for your inquisitiveness.) Treat me as you would like to be treated. 

5. I am a special gift from God. Please treasure me, holding me accountable for my actions, giving me guidelines to live by and disciplining me in a loving manner. 

6. I need your encouragement and your praise to grow. Please go easy on the criticism. Remember, you can criticize the things I do without criticizing me. 

7. Please give me the freedom to make decisions concerning myself. Permit me to fail so that I can learn from my mistakes. Then someday, I'll be prepared to make the kind of decisions life requires of me. 

8. Please don't do things over for me. Somehow that makes me feel that my efforts didn't quite measure up to your expectations. I know it's hard, but please don't try to compare me with my brother or my sister. 

9. Please don't be afraid to leave for a weekend together. Kids need vacations from parents, just as parents need vacations from kids. Besides, it's a great way to show us kids that your marriage is very special. 

10. Please take me to worship regularly, setting a good example for me to follow. 

To my beloved son, Muhammad Muqri and my lovely daughther, Zara Damia, mama love you because what you are, whatever it is, you are apple of my eyes, forever.

Cerita keji di pagi hari...(dilarang tengok kalau tak kuat semangat)

Ini cerita yang agak keji tapi zur masih lagi mahu berkongsi pengalaman ini with all my lovely readers. Hope you all jangan termuntah pulak atau terus boikot my blog. Walaupun agak keji dan gambar-gambar yang dipaparkan di entry ni amat menjijikkan, tapi zur rasa amatlah rugi kalau tak ceritakan di sini tentang apa yang terjadi.

Macam ni, Zur merupakan pengedar detox foot patch. Pernah dengar? Hmm...fungsinya sama macam Kinohimitsu tapi produk yang zur jual ni more affordable, this product from China. Okay, jangan mencebik dulu. Zur tahu, bila zur kata this product from China, ramai yang mula berpandangan negatif. Sayang, tak semua product China tu tiruan dan tak bagus tau. Detox foot patch ni diperbuat daripada ramuan herba-herba, dan ingat tak, orang cina sangat terkenal dengan ramuan-ramuan sebegini. Kalau tak percaya, cuba pergi ke kedai herba cina, you all cakap je apa yang you all nak, diorang akan campur-campurkan rempah ratus dan segala macam herba tu, and here we go...Satu lagi, Rasulullah juga pernah berpesan..tuntutlah ilmu hingga ke negeri China. Persoalannya..mengapa negeri China? Do you get my point, dear?

Okay, back to my story. Detox Foot Patch yang zur jual, setakat ini mendapat sambutan hangat di kalangan orang ramai. Budak-budak pun boleh pakai. Dengan gaya hidup zaman sekarang yang serba pantas, jangan sangka budak-budak tak perlu di detox, zur dah cuba pakaikan pada anak zur yang berumur 6 dan 3 tahun tu..ya ampun...malas nak cakap.

So zur ni, kalau pergi kerja, mesti nak pakai high heel, selain nak cantik, bolehlah nampak tinggi sikit, so can help me to build my self-confidence. So, bila dah pakai high-heel ni, itulah namanya menyiksa badan, yang paling teruk, kaki terasa sangat sakit. Kasihan the other half, tiap-tiap malam kena 'buka foot spa' (hehehe...thank u, yang). Pernah satu malam, zur terjaga, kaki punyalah sakit berdenyut-denyut, memang tak boleh tahan, rasa nak menjerit pun ada. So the other nite, masa tengah tengok tv dan melayan anak-anak, asyik berfikir pasal kaki yang sakit tu, tiba-tiba teringat yang zur still ada few pair detox foot patch ni kat rumah, so i grabbed a pair and use it. Dengan izin Allah, alhamdulillah, malam tu zur boleh tidur lena dan bangun pagi pun rasa selesa je.

Gambar yang sangat keji....segala mcm toksin ada kat dalam ni

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Both pcs...eeeiiiiiii....baunya pun busuk!

So siapa nak cuba, boleh leave comment kat zur ye...

Kata zur: Tak kisah macamana keji, janji kaki ku tak sakit lagi...theeeeeee

Papa...Just 5 more minutes...please?

While at the park one day, I sat down next to a man on a bench near a playground.

“That’s my son and my daughter over there,” I said, pointing to a little boy in a blue shirt who try to get a green ball from his sister, who wearing a pinky-stripe blouse.

“They are fine looking kids” the man said. “That’s my daughter on the bike in the green dress.”

Then, looking at his watch, he called to his daughter. “What do you say we go, Aisyah?”
Aisyah pleaded, “Just five more minutes, papa. Please? Just five more minutes.”

The man nodded and Aisyah continued to ride her bike to her heart’s content. Minutes passed and the father stood and called again to his daughter. “Time to go now?”
Again Aisyah pleaded, “Five more minutes, papa. Just five more minutes.”
The man smiled and said, “OK.”

“My, you certainly are a patient father,”i responded.

The man smiled and then said, “Her older brother Adam was killed by a drunk driver last year while he was riding his bike near here. I never spent much time with Adam and now I’d give anything for just five more minutes with him. I’ve vowed not to make the same mistake with Aisyah.

She thinks she has five more minutes to ride her bike. The truth is, I get Five more minutes to watch her play.”

Life is all about making priorities, what are your priorities?

Give someone you love 5 more minutes of your time today!

Good day bloggy....

Chocolate....thanks to Cadbury

Im stress, i feel so stress. With the work loads and lack of sleep for the whole week, im done. I start losing my concentration, now start to be grumpy and lil' bit serious but thanks god, i found this sweety in my handbag (forgot when i bought it)..but for sure, sweety help me out from drowning...

Thanks Cadbury...for produce this so nice and cheap chocolate...

but i start missing mr"Whittaker'

hmmm....

Its part of my soul....

Happy Saturday everyone,

I am sorry for closed this blog for a while , to whom who care and did asked me the reason, no negative thinking please. Im not closed it because i received bad comment that put me down, never. But i just think that this blog need a new image,so that it will be more sweet and reader-friendly, but i cant take more than 3 days. Lots of things keeping in my mind and i cant keep it alone.

Blogging help me release. For the few days during 'construction' period, i am like a lost woman, i am very stressful when i know that nobody...only me can read my own blog, so what's the point? So i decided that dont have to wait, i still can do the 'renovation'from time to time, and i know i did a right decision, because at this moment, i am taking a very long and deep release breath while i can see my blog smiling at me, knowing that blogging has became part of my soul.

I know that it might be i dont have a faithful reader but i knew few friends among friends who care about my blog. Those who are professional but always take sometimes to have a peek here and read my story. Those who keep ask me when i will write a new entry, those who tell me their story and wanna share their life-lesson with public via my blog, those who check-in here to see what is the new news or story that they can copy and share it with other friends, those who are love blogwalking and found my link on other friend's blog, those who i called as my close family and friends outside there who regularly scroll down my blog till they found interesting story to tease me and those who silently read my blog and keep come and come again, who some of them will write some comment but most of them, just 'blink and go'.

Whoever you are, please know that i do appreciate all of you. Seriously, i live this blog for your presents because you are the reason for me to keep sharing and blogging.

People..thank you for your support and please, leave me your comment and link so that i can show my appreciation.

Thank you...again

Regards,
zur
www.siapalebihtahu.blogspot.com

Ikea Meatball....i love it!

Its 12.18pm now and i am waiting a call from friends, because we promise to have lunch together...ops, then a sneek peak to karaoke for 1 hour, just to release our tension. After that? Yeah...rush back to office and continue our work. Hmm...seems like i cant finish eveything today but yes, i will try.

At this moment, because i start feel hungry and i can feel my tummy starts plays kreoookkk kreeokkk music, im thinking about one nice food that i had tried before at Ikea-Meatball. I heard people talking about it before but never try to try. Last week, me and hubby, on our dating day every Thursday evening, we went to Ikea, just to try this famous meatballs.

I dont know whether it is because im starving at that time OR the meatball itself is very nice, but i love it. I fall in love at the first bite, so juicy, fresh and marve-licious. The sauce abit sweet and not too spicy and fries...it spice up the flavour. I think you should try...

Price? RM5 for 5pcs set and RM10 for 10pcs set, together with the fries. We ask wether we can buy and take away but unfortunately, they dont offer take-away container, so if you want to buy and take-away, you have to bring your own container there.

I got nothing else to say. The more i look at this pictures, the more i can hear the sound of my tummy. Get to go now, people..

I said: Do tell me if you know any place that offer nice food with a good environment. Omg, i love eating....

A simple notes on Friday morning.

Assalamualaikum,

Im writing this while reading e-Kosmo and having my hot milo with a curry puff bought from Ikea last night. Actually i have no idea on what i should write but i always believe that ideas will comes when i start it, and now, without my concern, i already wrote 3 lines here.

Actually, i feel sad today, damn sad. My plan to follow my collagues trip to the place called Fraser Hill have to cancel, nope...not cancelled by them, i means, only me. While my friends having fun tomorrow, im sure at that time, im trying my best to not thinking about it and looking my best solution to have fun with family at home. Yes, why not? I always can solve my own problem, why not at this time?

Im suppose to go to saloon and color my hair today, with other 3 close friends, but because of some reason, we postponed it to next Friday. This is another issue. My non-muslim friend ask me, why i want to perm and color my hair, because im wearing scarf?. Okay honey, scarf will not be my obstacles to take care of myself. Scarf also never limit myself to do whatever i want to my hair, plus my husband love it so much, so why not? Sometimes it is difficult to explain but to make it simple, i told them that it is for my own satisfaction. As usual, i never bother what people said, i will do whatever i want, as long as it not break my religion and my husband's rules. Yes, i have to, right? Nope, wrong answer...i want to do it. Yes people, i love my religion too much and so proud to be a muslim.

Hmm...anybody here used blackberry? No? Impossible. There is a story where i wrote my review in Blackberry Application World.Yes, if you found someone with name: Ms. Whiteberry, it's me. I left my bbm pin there so that people can add me and i can have new friends in my bbm list. Start from that, everyday i got new requests, from other people all around the world. But now im tired enough. I got 13 friends now and 14 include my best friend ever (my hubby), and i think, im done. Im sorry people, i just want to say here that if you want people to respect you, please...do show your respect too. If you think you can do it, i have no problem if you want to add me...whoever you are.

Ah..my boss just came in to remind me about my work which is the dateline is 10.30am today. I say yes. Secretary came here also, just now, remind me to move my files to other place because on Monday, there is a new project control want to sit at that cubicles...yes...i say yes. Yes it is very important, if you say yes, meaning you trust yourself and when you trust yourself, you can do it ... *sigh*

Actually i got a lots of things to share. Lots of story saved as drafts, still got no time to complete it. But for me, something instant like this is better, the ideas comes direct from the heart. Ah...hopefully im not show off my feeling indirectly here, plus who's care, rite?

Before i stop, just wondering, is there people in this earth read my blog?

Happy Friday everyone...cheers

Colmar Tropicale Resort......sungguh menawan hati :)

Last few week, when holidays fall on week day, when i knew that it gonna be a very boring day and when i knew that is the perfect time to bring my kids outside and have fun, i finally succeed in persuade my husband to wake up early and bring us to the very nice place at the hill called Colmar Tropicale resort.

The trip takes about 45min from KL town. My kids is so excited, so do i. We reached there around 11am and the weather is so nice, not too cold and not too hot, but its so windy. The building is so nice and attractive, i like the design, like old british building. I saw lots of people there have fun taking pics, few group had photoshoot there. So nice la.

Here is few pics taking at Colmar Tropical Resort.

Look at her smile....hahahaha

Inside Colmar Tropical Area, very nice

She said: mama.....i want thisss... :p

Ok my dear, to get that giant bear, u should be able to catch the duckies...hehehe..and mama so lazy okay?

Other view...

We walked around the resport for an hour before decided to have a ride with a bus to Botanical Garden. From the bus stop, we have to walk to the Botanical Garden, it just about 100m but it is a very high hill. But because we are so excited and the weather is so good to us (hehehe)..finally, we are there. Wohoooooo!!

Hero in front of Botanical Garden...my sweetheart...muah muah

So huge....

Stair to heaven...hehehehe

Japanese Tea Garden...to drink japanese tea, u have to wear kimono prepared by the tea house..

She work very hard to reach the top of the stair...you go girl!

Hero served the lunch...mom and dad waiting...hehehe

Last but not least:

My fav. pictures...for all my readers.

I said: we can if we want.... *wink*. I LOVE you all okay...

Bad day huh?

Where is the moment we needed the most
You kick up the leaves and the magic is lost
They tell me your blue skies fade to gray
They tell me your passion's gone away
And I don't need no carryin' on

You stand in the line just to hit a new low
You're faking a smile with the coffee you go
You tell me your life's been way off line
You're falling to pieces every time
And I don't need no carryin' on

Because you had a bad day
You're taking one down
You sing a sad song just to turn it around
You say you don't know
You tell me don't lie
You work at a smile and you go for a ride
You had a bad day
The camera don't lie
You're coming back down and you really don't mind
You had a bad day
You had a bad day

Will you need a blue sky holiday?
The point is they laugh at what you say
And I don't need no carryin' on

You had a bad day
You're taking one down
You sing a sad song just to turn it around
You say you don't know
You tell me don't lie
You work at a smile and you go for a ride
You had a bad day
The camera don't lie
You're coming back down and you really don't mind
You had a bad day

(Oooh.. a holiday..)

Sometimes the system goes on the blink
And the whole thing turns out wrong
You might not make it back and you know
That you could be well oh that strong
And I'm not wrong

(yeah...)

So where is the passion when you need it the most
Oh you and I
You kick up the leaves and the magic is lost

Cause you had a bad day
You're taking one down
You sing a sad song just to turn it around
You say you don't know
You tell me don't lie
You work at a smile and you go for a ride
You had a bad day
You've seen what you like
And how does it feel for one more time
You had a bad day
You had a bad day

Bad day huh?

 I said: Its good to have a bad day, so that I can go home, eat fast-fast one and sleep early...nobody bother because they knew im not in a good mood..

Secubit lebih....tapi masih mahu..

Di tengah kesejukan yang bisa membekukan urat-urat tangan dan kaki,

Di tengah kesibukan yang seakan tak pernah berhenti,

Aku mendambakanmu.

Di antara waktu zuhur dan asar yang kian berlalu,

Di antara waktu senggang yang hanya menjenguk seketika,

Aku memikirkanmu

Ternyata aku amat menginginkanmu

Antara harumnya bau kulitmu dan manisnya rasamu

Seakan sukar untuk berhenti menikmatinya

Amat payah untuk ku mentafsir kelazatannya

Apatah lagi pabila ditemani semerbaknya secawan kopi dari Vietnam.

Aku cuba memperlahankan waktu...kiranya ku mampu

Ingin ku rasakan kenikmatan yang bersatu dengan kepuasan

Secubit demi secubit...ku mamah penuh perasaan

Ingin aku hargai setiap detik ini..

Lama ku mencari...seluruh KLCC aku redahi

Akhirnya ketemu...di Roti Boy

Oh cheese tart....kaulah cinta hati ku, idaman kalbu...

Happy Monday everyone.. :)

 

I said: I dont know but i just love Monday so much....its busy and short-day :)

More than words....

Saying I love you
Is not the words I want to hear from you
It's not that I want you
Not to say, but if you only knew
How easy it would be to show me how you feel
More than words is all you have to do to make it real
Then you wouldn't have to say that you love me
Cos I'd already know

What would you do if my heart was torn in two
More than words to show you feel
That your love for me is real
What would you say if I took those words away
Then you couldn't make things new
Just by saying I love you

More than words

Now I've tried to talk to you and make you understand
All you have to do is close your eyes
And just reach out your hands and touch me
Hold me close don't ever let me go
More than words is all I ever needed you to show
Then you wouldn't have to say that you love me
Cos I'd already know

What would you do if my heart was torn in two
More than words to show you feel
That your love for me is real
What would you say if I took those words away
Then you couldn't make things new
Just by saying I love you

More than words 

I said:  i am closing my eyes, wish with all my heart that he never said it.... :(

Im seriously dont know where to start....

I dont know where to start.
Should i start by telling you guys about my bad day today wheres alot of things cant be done on the given timeframe? Which is lead to my condition now: stress and so pressure until i can feel my heart beating not in normal way? Sometimes i heard it beat too fast until i feel like i can fainted anytime, or some other times, its too slow until i feel so weak, cant even raise my hands up....bad day

Or should i start by telling you that im not eat anything since morning , not taken my breakfast although i had 3pcs of traditional foods bought on my way to office this morning, and then went to do a 'compulsary shopping' with my friend because i already promise her that i will accompany her, 1pm rushed back to office to continue all my works which had dragged me to stay until this time..7.30pm. To spice up the story, all the documents that i scanned has been deleted in the folder by 'selfish and unresponsible creature' who never think about other people other than their own 'thing' in their pant....perfect day!

I just dont know where to start.
But i know that at this moment i feel like to scream loud and clear, left all the stress and worries in the air, take a deeeepppp breath and continue my work.

But...

I still dont know....

Iron Maiden-The Final Frontier in Singapore

Siapa tahu kumpulan Iron Maiden? Tak tahu? Zur pun tak tahu tapi jeng...jeng....jeng...tetiba last week dapat ni:

Ha, berkobar-kobar kan? Semangat tuh....tapi sebab hari ni mood kureng, so, zur malas nak cerita panjang-panjang...yang penting memang best, harap-harap diorang akan datang ke Malaysia dan kerajaan Malaysia akan benarkan sebab kalau nak dikira, lagu-lagu diorang bukannya menggalakkan kekejaman, brutality tapi more to nilai-nilai kehidupan.

Mana yang tak dapat tengok tu, kalau tak silap hari ni diorang ke Jakarta...atau tengok je lah dalam youtube :p

OH WELL, WHEREVER, WHEREVER YOU ARE

IRON MAIDEN'S GOING TO GET YOU, NO MATTER HOW FAR!

IRON MAIDEN CAN'T BE FOUGHT, IRON MAIDEN CAN'T BE SOUGHT

Mood itu bukan milikku ..

Hari ni xde mood, semua benda yang dibuat tak menjadi. Hati panas semacam, tapi lepas ambil wuduk tadi, rasa tenang sikit. Tak tahu kenapa, rasa tension dan tertekan, ada juga bibit-bibit kebosanan tapi malas nak layan, jadi buat-buatlah sibuk walaupun hati rasa macam nak menjerit. Timbunan kertas-kertas yang didokumenkan dengan nombor siri masing-masing menambah semak yang menggunung di hati. Email-email yang bertalu-talu masuk beserta dengan reminder yang asyik keluar setiap sejam memburukkan lagi perasaan yang sedia ada. Rimas, resah,celaru, bengang, kusut bersatu menjadi satu perasaan yang memualkan.

Hari ni hari serba tak kena sedunia. Hari di mana nak tengok muka orang pun rasa menyampah, hari di mana lauk-lauk di kedai mamak serba tak sedap, hari yang penuh kebosanan, even lagu Sungai Lui nyanyian Aizat pun sumbang di telinga. Hari dimana bos buat lawak pun aku malas nak layan. Hari yang buat aku rasa macam nak balik tidur atau meringkuk dalam selimut di dalam bilik ber-aircond di tengah hari buta. Ah...syoknya kalau waktu-waktu begini ada atuk dan wan. Alangkah bagusnya kalau saat-saat begini ada zara damia..

Waktu bekerja masih berbaki 6jam sebelum tiba waktu dinner di kelab Aman. Sabar zuriati, tak mengapa, tiada untungnya melayan perasaan negatif sebegini. Buang masa malah langsung tak membantu, sedangkan masa laju berputar meninggalkan kita terkapai-kapai. Aku tak mahu menjadi orang yang sia-sia, leka mengira bintang di langit hingga lupa bahawa tiba masanya matahari akan menjelma. Yang negatif harus diucapkan goodbye, welcome positif mind, semoga masih ada sisa-sisa semangat untuk meneruskan jam-jam berikutnya.

Assalamualaikum ...

Kata zur: tak tahu nak kata apa...

Salam Maulidur Rasul...

Assalamualaikum semua,

Hari semalam hari bersejarah. Hari Keputeraan Rasullullah, nabi junjungan kita. Hari yang jatuh pada hari ke-12 bulan Rabiul Awal sempena kelahiran Nabi yang jatuh pada pada Isnin ( Dari hadith riwayat Muslim, 8/25 ) 12 Rabiul Awal Tahun Gajah bersamaan dengan 23 April 571. Baginda adalah nabi terakhir yang diutus oleh Allah Subhanahu Wataala. Tapak kelahiran baginda pula kini mempunyai satu bangunan kecil yang dikenali sebagai  Maulid Nabi.

Semalam juga adalah public holiday. Bagi yang kuat tidur, inilah yang ditunggu, peluang untuk tidur melewati waktu subuh dan adakalanya berpanjangang hingga ke zuhur menghala ke asar. Jauhnya 'perjalanan', kalau ditakdirkan mati antara waktu-waktu itu, apakah agaknya nasib (peringatan untuk diri sendiri juga). Ada yang mengambil kesempatan membawa keluarga beriadah, ada yang duduk berehat sahaja di rumah tapi kebanyakan tempat mengadakan sambutan Maulidur Rasul dengan beberapa acara seperti perarakan, ceramah dan sebagainya. Ala, macam birthday party, ada makan-makan, gossip-gossip tapi untuk Rasulullah, sempena meraikan hari Baginda, kita buat sesuatu yang lebih bermakna dan berilmu.

Tahu tak you all. Dengan menghadiri majlis Maulidur Rasul ini, Allah memberikan kita pahala. Kita dapat lihat betapa besarnya kelebihan orang yang memuliakan majlis keputeraan Nabi Muhammad Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam, kerana bila berniat sahaja hendak mengadakan Maulud Nabi, sudah pun dikira mendapat pahala dan dimuliakan, apatah lagi dengan menghadirinya. Sememangnya bernazar untuk melakukan sesuatu yang baik merupakan doa dan dikira amal salih

Jelas kepada kita bahawa pembalasan Allah Subhanahu Wataala terhadap kebaikan begitu cepat sehinggakan terdetik sahaja di hati hendak berbuat kebaikan, sudah Allah akan memberi pembalasan yang tiada ternilai. Seseorang yang beriman, kuat bersandar kepada Allah, ketika di dalam kesusahan dia tetap tenang dan hatinya hanya mengadu kepada Allah dan mengharapkan pertolongan dan kasih sayang

Zur kagum dengan keperibadian Rasullullah. Sungguhpun baginda seorang yang maksum, ibadahnya kepada Allah sangat luar biasa. Kasih sayang kepada umatnya sukar ditafsirkan dengan kata-kata. Zur menangis apabila membaca kisah baginda yang risaukan nasib umat-umatnya biarpun baginda hampir menghembuskan nafasnya yang terakhir. Betapa, tingginya cinta baginda kepada kita semua, dan betapa, kita ini adakalanya lupa pada baginda, betapa kita angkuh hidup di bumi Allah ini dengan melakukan kemaksiatan seolah-olah kita akan hidup selama-lamanya...

Sahabat , semoga kita akan mendapat keberkatan bersama, insya allah

Kata Zur:Teringin sangat nak menziarah makam nabi, bawak anak-anak sekali..

Sorry.....saya tak sambut Valentine's Day

14 Feb...Hari Kemaksiatan.

Maaf, ini bukan merujuk pada sesiapa yang menyambut hari lahir atau meraikan anniversary perkahwinan you all tapi merujuk kepada hari yang you all semua tahu: Hari Kekasih atau Valentine Day.Hari-hari yang bermakna harga bunga melambung berganda-ganda, even bunga tahi ayam pun laris, coklat harga rm3 seketul jadi rm13, kad-kad yang dijual di Memory Lane tu laku macam pisang goreng panas di tengah hujan lebat. Guardian dan Watson juga akan diserbu oleh anak-anak muda yang ghairah sangat nak meraikan cinta masing-masing, hasilnya esok pagi akan bersepah-sepahlah kondom di taman-taman mahupun Dataran Merdeka. Haish...Dan, 9 bulan dari sekarang, maka lahirlah anak-anak luar nikah hasil sambutan Hari Valentine. Ceh!

Early morning lagi clients and all the bosses keep wish me Happy Valentine. The first wish i got is from my Indian boss who normally very hard to say even good morning to me. So surprise because i thought Valentine Day is tomorrow (hehehe...ni kes silap tengok tarikh lah ni).

My response. I just said: thank you. Tak tahu nak response macamana. My best friend, Harpreet, she also wish me Happy Valentine Day and when i told her that im not celebrate it, she said: come on, it just a wish. Yes my dear, it just a wish but the merily the wish, the more shows our support for this day, means we are celebrating it. Ah, sometimes, very hard to make people understand. And some other time, I think zipped my mouth and lock myself in the room always the best solution.

I dont want to be too typical, but for me, rules created to be follow (although most people said rules is to be break). Im not saying that im a very good Muslim but for the simple things like this, if i think i can do, i will do it, i will obey. So, maaf ye, no need to wish me Happy Valentine's Day because it is nothing for me, and not make sense to me at all. I say NO to Valentine Days for years...

Kata zur: Tak heran dengan sambutan Valentine Day, sebab hari-hari pun boleh meraikan cinta, apatah lagi ada suami, HALAL dan SELAMAT.

Kenapa rasa terhina bila digelar ustaz?

Salam semua,

Dalam dunia ni memang manusia dilahirkan dengan pelbagai karenah dan perangai. Memang manusia diciptakan begitu, punya kelebihan dan juga kekurangan. Allah menciptakan sesuatu itu dengan peranannya yang tersendiri. Dan setiap ciptaan-Nya yang begitu dan begini, punya sebab dan musabab yang adakalanya sukar dijangkau oleh pemikiran manusia yang amat terbatas ini.

Begitu juga, di sekeliling kita, ada banyak manusia yang boleh menaikkan kualiti hidup kita hingga tahap tertinggi yang 'disukat' mengikut penilaian masing-masing, tapi ada banyak juga yang bisa menjatuhkan maruah kita sehina-hinanya, lebih hina dari binatang.Jika seseorang itu tahu bersyukur dan menghargai setiap kelebihan yang di anugerahkan oleh Tuhan yang Maha Esa, maka alangkah beruntungnya dia tapi jika sebaliknya maka tergolonglah dia dalam golongan orang-orang yang rugi.

Dalam pergaulan sesama manusia yang pelbagai karenah ini, kita digalakkan supaya bertoleransi dan berhemah, supaya tak menyinggung perasaan sesiapa. Salah satunya ialah menggunakan nama atau panggilan-panggilan yang mempunyai maksud yang baik serta disukai oleh si empunya badan. Kalau antara suami isteri, panggillah nama-nama manja seperti sayang, baby, cinta, darling, kuci-kuci (hahahaha...ni pun ada), supaya dapat mengeratkan kasih sayang antara mereka.

Tapi adakalanya zur tak faham perangai sesetengah manusia. Ada masa-masanya bila zur rasa hormat dengan ketinggian ilmu seseorang,zur akan panggil dengan nama sifu, cikgu atau ustaz. Bukankan itu panggilan-panggilan yang baik? Bukankah tugas seorang cikgu, sifu atau ustaz itu satu tugas yang mulia? Takkan nak panggil sayang kot, nanti apakah pula yang membezakan mereka dengan sayang zur yang kat umah tu (hai yang...peace no war).

Oh, mungkin bagi mereka itu adalah satu sindiran? Atau maksud zur disalah-erti sebagai panggilan sinis? Apakah mereka rasa terhina? Adakah gelaran-gelaran itu terlalu keji untuk disambut dengan senyuman? Oh..kalau begitu, zur minta maaf. Tidak ada sekelumit pun niat di hati nak memerli atau menyindir. Kalau itu anggapan mereka, zur rela berdiam diri, ucapkan terima kasih dan blah je dari situ. Demi Allah yang mencipta langit dan bumi, zur ikhlas. Kalau mereka mengatakan bahawa zur cuba cari pasal, i think u might 'ring a wrong number'. Kalau semata-mata nak cari pasal, i prefer to be 'out of coverage area'.

Ingat pesan orang tua-tua, bila memandang birunya langit, kenang juga pada hijaunya rerumput di bumi. Kalau mahu dihargai, belajarlah menghargai. Kalau mahukan tingginya martabat di samping masyarakat, kongsilah ilmu di dada, jangan mengeji, jangan menghina, kerana kau tak akan selamanya berada di atas...

Kata Zur: Tak kisah orang nak cari pasal, jangan ganggu periuk nasi and family zur sudah dan satu lagi: aku tak ada masa nak layan sampah!

A very 'siot' thursday wish.. *wink*

Hey, hello guys,

How are you doing? It still early, i just came to office and cant wait to check my blog. Yup! Lately ni zur dah jadi blogger tegar and the first thing i want to do on this fine morning, before i take my light breaksfast is wishing all my readers a very good morning. And to complete my Thursday wish, must have graphic so i 'called' uncle google and ask him to send me some pics and this is what i got:

wo hooooooo

ops!

Ha? omg..

fuyoooooo ...

chill....very chill

Thank you so much lah, uncle google. But still, the winner goes to......drum roll please...

Kan lebih sopan...

Happy Thursday everyone.

Kata Zur: Tak faham kenapa hari Khamis je, semua guna graphic sexy macam ni, adakah kerana malam ini MALAM JUMAAT? shhhhhhh...

Me...at this moment.. :(