Mee Udang Kuala Sepetang

Mee udang Mak Jah yang famous ini letaknya di Kuala Sepetang. Aku dah tak ingat sangat macamana nak ke sini secara detailnya sebab dah menempuh perjalanan yang jauh, dari KL, dengan pelbagai karenah anak-anak sepanjang perjalanan. Tapi apa yang aku ingat, selepas exit Changkat Jering terus masuk kiri dan jalan sahaja terus ke depan sampai jumpa sign board Mee Udang Mak Jah.

Sepanjang perjalanan selepas exit Changkat Jering tu, you all akan jumpa alot of signboard for mee udang, kalau nak cuba tak salah, cuma for me yang dah dihasut dek hubby sejak seminggu sebelum perjalanan kami, itu sahajalah yang ada dihati; Mee Udang Mak Jah. Ah..Im starving. I travelled all day long just to taste this mee udang yang diwar-warkan. If you ask me...it is super duper delicious!

Okay...pictures....here with go

 To recognize this stall, here is the sign. Left side, here we go, together with this is the email and contact number ( I published this at no cost okay, not even free mee udang...hahaha)

Okay, kat sini disediakan parking lot yang agak luas, free of charge, khas untuk pelanggan kedai mee udang mak jah sahaja okay, bertentangan dengan kedai makan tadi. Minah kat dalam gambar ni dah over excited, sebab akhirnya sampai jumpa.. (and I feel so relieve, no more "are we there yet?" every 20minutes)

Suasana dalam kedai makan, agak tenteram. Makan pun berselera sebab ditemani angin sepoi-sepoi bahasa dan dalam suasana kampung, agak unik perasaan itu, walaupun orang ramai silih berganti, tapi tetap balun sampai 2 mangkuk (ops!)

And last but not least......taraaaaaaaaaaaaaaa.....

Yummy!

Tak sangka aku belasah sampai 2 mangkuk, lapar kot..Ada macam-macam menu,semuanya ada udang. Mee udang, mee udang special, mee goreng udang, kue tiew goreng udang, nasi goreng udang, tomyam udang ... u said it, macam-macam ada. Oh ya, kat sini wifi pun ada, tapi kena mintak password lah. Harga agak sepadan, aku kira my mee udang special, they got 11 pcs yg size sedang-sedang tau. price RM11 ++

Alhamdulillah....

Hasilnya..heheh

Korang ada cadangan tempat makan yang best-best dan harga berpatutan? Tell me...I will go, if weekend got nothing to do...hahaha (yes, aku memang gila travel)

Kata Aku: Nikmatilah nikmat makanan sementara masih sihat dan punya selera :) Enjoy life

Surat cinta..

Assalamualaikum,

Lamanya tak update blog ni, dah bersawang-sawang. Maaflah, sepanjang Ramadhan sangat sibuk dengan kehidupan realiti, tak punya masa terluang untuk ber-blogging. Anyway thanks for the silent reader out there who gave sometimes a sneak-peek to my blog.

Love letter...lama betul tak pernah dapat love letter. Korang ada bersurat-surat cinta macam dolu-dolu? Eh, syok tau. Teringat zaman remaja dulu,selalu curi-curi baca surat cinta bapak saudara. Semua ayat bermula dengan "ditemani cahaya bulan, aku mendoakan semoga....". Wakakaka...jiwang!

Kisahnya si anak teruna, pulang je dari taska semalam terus mintak pensil dan kertas, nak tulis surat cinta katanya. Wahh...budak-budak zaman sekarang, kelas ko jah! Mama dulu umur 6 tahun, tak tahu apa surat cinta, nak tulis nama sendiri pun kurang pandai, apatah lagi nak menulis surat cinta. Lepas dapat pensil dan kertas, si boboiboy teruslah menunduk, tekun menulis, kita pun rasa bangga , hati kembang-kuncup memikirkan nak dapat surat cinta dari anak, aish! tak sabarnya....

Ok mama, dah siap! Skang abang nak pergi rumah irfan (cousinnya yang tinggal di tingkat satu). Aik? Mama dah naik hairan, mana surat cinta untuk mamanya?, aku bertanya. Bukan untuk mama lah (ha, time ni mama rasa dah nak menangis!) Habis untuk siapa? Takde jawapan, hanya satu senyuman yang agak mencurigakan yang bisa aku lihat. Eh? Kenapa mamat ni tersengih-sengih ni? Tak boleh jadi ni!

So aku pun apa lagi, psycho lah dia skit. "Okay, kalau macam tu, bagi mama tengok surat tu, mama nak check, spelling abang betul atau tak". Nah! Trick menjadi....Surat dah pun ada di dalam tangan, dengan penuh suspen...jeng jeng jeng.

Kata aku: Eh! Malulah nak teruskan cerita, korang nilailah sendiri...hehehe

The Irreplaceable Void

A worth sharing story:

4 years ago, an accident took my beloved away and very often I wonder, how does my wife, who is now in the heavenly realm, feel right now? She must be feeling extremely sad for leaving a husband who is incapable to taking care of the house and the kid. 'cos that is the exact feeling that I have, as I feel that I have failed to provide for the physical and emotional needs of my child, and failed to be the dad and mum for my child.

There was one particular day, when I had an emergency at work. Hence, I had to leave home whilst my child was still sleeping. So thinking that there was still rice leftovers, I hastily cooked an egg and left after informing my sleepy child.

With the double roles, I am often exhausted at work as well as when I am home. So after a long day, I came home, totally drained of all energy. So with just a brief hug and kiss for my child, I went straight into the room, skipping dinner. However, when I jumped into my bed with intention of just having a well-deserved sleep, all i heard and felt was broken porcelain and warm liquid! I flipped open my blanket, and there lies the source of the 'problem'... a broken bowl with instant noodles and a mess on the bedsheet and blanket!

Boy, was I mad! I was so furious that I took a clothes hanger, charged straight at my child who was happily playing with his toy, and give him a good spanking! He merely cried but not asking for mercy, except a short explanation:

"Dad, I was hungry and there wasn't anymore leftover rice. But you were not back yet, hence I wanted to cook some instant noodles. But I remembered you reminding me not to touch or use the gas stove without any adults around, hence I turned on the shower and used the hot water from the bathroom to cook the noodles. One is for you and the other is for me. However, I was afraid that the noodles will turn cold, so I hid it under the blanket to keep it warm till you return. But I forgot to remind you 'cos I was playing with my toys....I am sorry Dad..."

At that moment, tears were starting to run down my cheeks...but I didn't want my son to see his dad crying so I dashed into the bathroom and cried with the shower head on to mask my cries. After that episode, I went towards my son to give him a tight hug and applied medication on him, while coaxing him to sleep. Then, it was time to clear up the mess on the bed. When everything was done and well past midnight, I passed my son's room, and saw that he was still crying, not from the pain on his little buttock, but from looking at the photograph of his beloved mummy.

A year has passed since the episode, I have tried, in this period, to focus on giving him both the love of his dad and mum, and to attend to most of his needs. And soon, he is turning seven, and will be graduating from kindergarten. Fortunately, the incident did not leave a lasting impression on his childhood memories and he is still happily growing up.

However, not so long ago, I hit my boy again, with much regret. This time, his kindergarten teacher called, informing me of my son's absence from school. I took off early from work and went home, expecting him to explain. But he wasn't to be found, so I went around our house, calling out his name and eventually found him outside a stationery shop, happily playing computer games. I was fuming, brought him home and whack the hell out of him. He did not retaliate, except to say, 'I am sorry, Dad'. But after much probing, I realized that it was a 'Talent Show' organized by his school and the invite is for every student's mummy. And that was the reason for his absence as he has no mummy.....

Few days after the caning, my son came home to tell me, the kindergarten has recently taught him how to read and write. Since then, he has kept to himself and stayed in his room to practise his writing, which I am sure, would make my wife proud, if she was still around. 'cos he makes me proud too!

Time passes by very quickly, and soon another year has passed. It's winter, and its Christmas time. Everywhere the christmas spirit is in every passer-by...Christmas carols and frantic shoppers....but alas, my son got into another trouble. When I was about to knock off from the day's work, the post office called. Due to the peak season, the post master was also on an edgy mood. He called to tell me that my son has attempted to post several letters with no addressee. Although I did make a promise never to hit my son again, I couldn't help but to hit him as I feel that this child of mine is really beyond control. Once again, as before, he apologized, ' I'm sorry, Dad' and no additional reason to explain. I pushed him towards a corner, went to the post office to collect the letters with no addressee and came home, and angrily questioned my son on his prank, during this time of the year.

His answer, amidst his sobbing, was : The letters were for Mummy.

My eyes grew teary, but I tried to control my emotions and continued to ask him: " But why did u post so many letters, at one time?" My son's reply was: " I have been writing to mummy for a long time, but each time I reach out for the post box, it was too high for me, hence I was not able to post the letters. But recently, when I went back to the postbox, I could reach it and I sent it all at once..."

Dear Mummy,
I miss you so much! Today, there was a 'Talent Show' in school, and the school invited all mothers for the show. But you are not around, so I did not want to participate as well. I did not tell Dad about it as I was afraid that Dad would start to cry and miss you all over again. Dad went around looking for me, but in order to hide my sadness, I sat in front of the computer and started playing games at one of the shops. Dad was furious, and he couldnt help it but scolded and hit me, but I did not tell him the real reason.

Mummy,
Everyday I see Dad missing you and whenever he think of you, he is so sad and often hide and cry in his room. I think we both miss you very very much. Too much for our own good I think. But Mummy, I am starting to forget your face. Can you please appear in my dreams so that I can see your face and remember you? I heard that if you fall asleep with the photograph of the person whom you miss, you will see the person in your dreams. But mummy, why havent you appear?

After reading the letter, I can't stop sobbing. 'cos I can never replace the irreplaceable gap left behind by my wife....

For the females with children:
Don't do so much overtime. If you cannot finish the work, it must be some kind of problems within the company, and it is not your sole problem. Feedback to your boss. Endless overtime may not necessary be the answer to the problem. Take care of your health so that you can treasure and take care of your little precious.

For the married men:
Drink less, smoke less, cos nothing can replace your good health, not even business nor clients.Try thinking this way, are you able to work till your clients are totally dependent on you? or your boss is totally dependent on you? In this society, no one is indispensable. Take care of your health, so that you can take care of your little precious and your loved ones.

For those singles out there:
Beauty lies in loving yourself first. With confidence and loving yourself, you will see the beauty in other things around you. You will be able to work better and happier. Don't let your health be affected by your work or your boss, so nothing matters more than your well being.

I said: speechless....

Entry tak terkata..

Yes,

I know i havent update this blog for ages. No time for blogging, no time for facebook, my life now is a reality one, tak ada yang di alam maya.

Semalam while waiting for my beloved husband to pick up me from office, i heard people talking about phone call for someone who offer a job with a cant-say-no amount and benefit. I got that call too..so now i start feel curious. What the heck!

I feel so dissappointed and bengang. My blackberry dah mula buat hal, start hang for few minutes and abit difficult to scroll. Geram tak terkata. Dalam hati dah menyumpah-nyumpah, ikutkan hati nak je aku grab Iphone but I want to wait for my friend who going for holiday in Europe . Who's know he will bring ' I feel gooood' stuff. *double wink* to Amir Hasanuddin. I wanna hear good news ok

Last week i went to Pediatric hospital @ HKL, visiting my lil sister cousin who suspect to have Leukemia. She's only 4. And I went visit her again on Monday, brought all the stuff that she may need..pampers, milk, socks and tidbit to make her happy. Oh dear...really tak terkata. Unlike! But Allah is Almighty, her mom so strong, I never heard she complaint on anything. Betapa aku tak bersyukur, sihat walafiat dan still lucky but ....ah! Allah knows..

Tak terkata....

Beberapa kesalahan semasa berhari raya..

Anugerah Ilahi

Semalam aku pulang lambat, selepas berbuka hampai jam 9 malam baru sampai di nursery mengambil anak-anak. Kasihan anak-anak mama, terpaksa menunggu. Badan yang letih, otak yang penat, segala-galanya hilang sebaik sahaja melihat wajah kedua-dua jantung hatiku. Menerima pelukan dan ciuman hangat daripada si adik, melihat senyuman si abang yang tersipu-sipu bila aku mencuit hidungnya cukup untuk mengembalikan semangat yang kian hilang dimamah waktu.

Mama!!!. Itu jeritan yang aku rindukan setiap hari, jeritan yang membuatkan aku tak pernah berasa sabar untuk berjumpa mereka berdua. Bertuahnya diri, punya buah hati yang menjadi segala-galanya dalam hidupku. Beruntungnya kerana bisa mendengar panggilan 'mama' itu setiap hari. Tekanan, keletihan dan segala kepenatan yang bersarang dalam diri selepas seharian dalam kesibukan hilang serta-merta sebaik sahaja mencium ubun-ubun mereka. Bagi aku, mereka sentiasa harum, walaupun tubuh lencun berpeluh dek bermain. Kanak-kanak.............penghuni syurga...

Lately ada beberapa peristiwa yang menyentuh naluriku. Si adik tak lena tidur, kerana gatal-gatal seluruh badan. Mungkin allergic. Badan yang penat, mata yang teramat mengantuk, keenakan dibuai mimpi terpaksa ditolak tepi apabila mendengar dia merengek sambil menggaru-garu di seluruh badan. Aku renung tubuh kecil itu. Rasa bersalah mula menyelubungi diri, menyesal kerana tidur terlalu lena sedangkan dia sedang bertarung dengan ketidakselesaan. Pantas aku bangun, aku cium pipi mulus itu, aku selak rambutnya yang panjang, perlahan-lahan aku pegang tangannya dan menepuk perlahan, tangannya sudah berhenti menggaru, matanya kembali pejam. Tidurlah anak, biar mama membantu....tanganku menggosok-gosok seluruh badannya. Aku lihat di bahagian kaki nya sudah berdarah kerana digaru. Kasihannya, kalau bukan kerana aku tertidur, tidaklah sampai berdarah begini. Aku ambil ubat dan aku sapu perlahan-lahan, mulutku tidak berhenti-henti membaca Fatihah, semoga Allah mengizinkan dia untuk tidur lena untuk malam itu.

Ku lihat sebelah, ah, si abang merengkuk kesejukan. Entah kemana selimutnya. Aku capai selimutku dan pantas menyelimuti tubuh kecil itu, agar dia terasa sedikit panas dan boleh tidur dengan lena. Si adik nampaknya sudah lena, perlahan-lahan aku baring di tengah-tengah antara putera puteri hatiku. Mataku kembali pejam, syukurlah, insyaallah...si adik akan dapat tidur dengan lena hingga ke pagi. Tiba-tiba aku rasakan ada tangan kecil memeluk leherku dengan erat sehingga aku boleh merasakan kehangatan pipinya menyentuh pipiku.Aku tersenyum dan tanpa ku duga, dia bangun dan menciumku bertalu-talu di seluruh muka. Oh anak, kamu membuat mama terharu. Mungkin inilah caranya untuk dia mengucapkan terima kasih atas kesanggupan aku melupakan keenakan dibuai mimpi nan indah. Sesungguhnya, ini adalah sesuatu yang terlalu manis, sayang.

Masa berlalu. Hari ini aku tidak dapat pulang awal dan berbuka puasa bersama-sama suami dan anak-anak, ada kerja penting yang harus diselesaikan di office. Ah, hati sudah di rumah tapi apakan daya. Aku cepat-cepat menyelesaikan tugas yang ada agar aku boleh pulang dengan segera. Dalam hati tertanya-tanya, apakan santapan mereka untuk berbuka nanti? Terbayang-bayang kami sekeluarga duduk di meja dan si abang akan membaca doa sebelum makan bersama-sama. Terdengar-dengar suara si adik yang meminta ayam walaupun itu adalah ikan. Ah...aku harus bekerja dengan lebih pantas, aku rindu mereka.

Jam 11 malam baru aku sampai di rumah. Si adik menerpa dan memeluk aku sebaik sahaja aku melangkah masuk sambil minta di dukung. Mana abang? Oh, abang sudah tertidur di sofa. Kasihan anak mama. Hari ini hari pertama dia berjaya puasa penuh tapi mama tak ada untuk bersama-sama meraikan kejayaannya. Maafkan mama, sayang. Aku pantas mandi dan menunaikan solat Isyak.  Pada tahiyat yang terakhir, aku rasakan ada seseorang di sebelahku. Dalam hati terdetik " siapa pula?". Aku cuba lebih kusyuk...tiba-tiba, aku terasa ada ciuman singgah di kedua pipiku....kiri dan kanan. Ya Ampun...Muhammad Muqri!

Salam diberi. Ku melihat si abang duduk bersandar di dinding menunggu aku habis bersolat. Sebaik sahaja aku habis memberi salam, pantas dia datang dan baring atas ribaku.Hmm...aku tersenyum, aku cium dahinya, ku usap rambutnya yang lembut...Ya Allah, terima kasih atas kurniaanMu ini.

Sesungguhnya anak-anak itu anugerah yang tidak ternilai...

Life Lesson from a baby porcupine :)

Another lesson learned here...

The parable is worth sharing…. But have you ever seen a baby porcupine?

It was the coldest winter ever. Many animals died because of the cold. The porcupines, realizing the situation, decided to group together to keep warm. This way they covered and protected themselves; but the quills of each one wounded their closest companions. After awhile, they decided to distance themselves one from the other and they began to die, alone and frozen. So they had to make a choice: either accept the quills of their companions or disappear from the Earth

Wisely, they decided to go back to being together. They learned to live with the little wounds caused by the close relationship with their companions in order to receive the warmth that came from the others. This way they were able to survive.

Moral of the story: 

 The best relationship is not the one that brings together perfect people, but when each individual learns to live with the imperfections of others and can admire the other person's good qualities. 

The real moral of the story: 

LEARN TO LIVE WITH THE PIN PRICKS IN YOUR LIFE

Zur's says: ^__^

No heart entry...

Actually i dont know what is the suitable title for my entry this time. Should i put a sad title that can describe my feeling at this moment, or should i put something that can show that i am a toughest woman in this world. I dont know, I'll let you people to decide then tell what i title it...

So many things happen in this world lately. From the series of earthquake that killed many people all around the world till the rally that occured in this fine country few days back. All these.....all of these had influence my emotion. Dont know why, I am just so damn worried. Where is in this world safe for us? If in our own home we cant sleep peacefully, where else..

I dont know. Even to give my kids to be takecare of my own family also worried me, sending them to the nursery every morning with their eyes still close already made the feeling worst. Oh dear... 

It just a full of worries day  ....

Just...Dont Give Up On ME ..... please

I don't to church enough

I curse out loud, 

I drink too much

I'm more of a sinner than a saint

Got a dusty Bible on my shelf
I just pick it up when I need help
Lord know there's a lot I need to change
And I want to, baby, you make me want to

You tie the knot
When I'm at the end of my rope
You never stop believin' in me
When I don't know who I am
Or what I'm supposed to be
I don't give you no good reason
But baby, don't give up on me

I've smoke my last cigarette
At least a hundred times I bet
I guess I'll just keep quittin' til' it sticks

But for all the things I've failed to do
I've never failed at lovin' you
We both know I can't grant your every wish
But I want to, baby, you make me want to

You tie the knot
When I'm at the end of my rope
You never stop believin' in me
When I don't know who I am
Or what I'm supposed to be
I don't give you no good reason
But baby, don't give up on me

You tie the knot
When I'm at the end of my rope
You never stop believin' in me
When I don't know who I am
Or what I'm supposed to be
I don't give you no good reason
But baby, don't give up on me

 

 

Ipad2

Kelam-kabut....serabut

Itu perkataan yang boleh men'describe'kan keadaan aku sekarang. Ah, kalau dilihat kembali, cepatnya masa berlalu, rasa baru semalam terima bunga sempena ulangtahun kelahiran, tup-tup, pejam celik pejam celik, datang bunga yang baru, menandakan bertambah setahun lagi usia. Alhamdulillah

Sejak entry yang bersuka-ria sebab apa yang dihajatkan selama ini telah dilunaskan, belum pernah dapat masa yang tenang untuk menulis disini. Ada yang bertanya, apa isi kandungan kotak tu. Tak tahu patut atau tak hadiah tu dipaparkan disini, harap jangan ada yang menganggap aku sebagai menunjuk-nunjuk...

Ipad 2..dah lama mencari, jenuh ke semua apple and Mac store tapi semua berakhir dengan kehampaan. So pada bloggies di luar sana yang berhajat untuk mendapatkan ipad2, sila lah ke website apple sendiri untuk membuat pembelian secara online di sini: Apple Store Tak payahlah korang nak bermimpi nak beli direct from apple store kat KL ni, buat habis duit parking je. Delivery within 2-3 weeks.

So for original apple product accessories, sure mahal kan. So rajin-rajinkanlah meluangkan masa berjalan-jalan ke Low Yat. I got screen protector for RM11 and ipad cover for RM25. Okaylah for short-term use. Tunggu cukup budget baru dapatkan yang ori....tunggu gak kalau-kalau ada orang yang nak belikan ke.. (huhuhuhu....beranganlah kau, zuriati)

Oh ya, kalau order online, kita akan dapat free engraving kat bahagian belakang. So ada few tips la untuk sesiapa yang nak order for engraving ni. When you request for this free engraving (yes, it is free), kalau boleh jangan request for something like your own name unless you want to give this stuff as a gift.  Reason, in future manalah tahu kalau-kalau you all nak jual, jarang ada orang yang suka bila tengok kat situ dah 'tertattoo' nama korang. So jalan selamat, like me, i put my favorite quote: Every Life has a Story. Cool kan.... Ada gak terfikir, best juga kalau boleh request to engrave our favorite cartoon...nak request Optimus Prime .... hehehehe

So pada first time user mcm aku ni ha, memang agak confuse sebab tak tahu apa connection antara itunes and ipad ni. Kalau korang telah menjadi yang empunya apple product ni, you will know. But honestly speaking i would prefer Samsung Tab rather than Ipad..IF Tab come out with bigger size like Ipad size. As usual apple comes out with thousands nice application and fun games but be careful, nanti asyik purchase je, tup-tup bil kredit kad melambung. Masak!

Game yang best? I like cooking dash (thinking to purchase full version of this game), hubby like game flight stimulation (berangan nak jadi pilot lah tu...), lil' hero loves roller-coaster and race car and anak dara kecik tu? Oh dear, she loves Talking Ben so much. Berhantu lah Ben si anjing tu...huhuu

Till here...next time kita share pasal cerita my new babies

PS: Yang dikejar dah dapat, tapi yang dikendong tetap berciciran...*sigh*

Something that will complete my day...

Assalamualaikum bloggies,

Pagi ni sangat-sangatlah busy, sudahlah lambat sampai ke office, kerja pula masih banyak yang belum settle. Hmm...nilah kalau tak datang time weekend, jawabnya Monday will be a hectic day for me.

After breakfast and ready to start my work, I got an email from the receptionist saying that there is one box for me at the reception. Wah...adakah itu barang yang ku nanti-nantikan. Sungguh bersemangat, i ran to the reception area and surperiseeee...

Tapi skang tengah busy so laterlah....(walaupun sungguh tidak sabar...)

Suami Teladan

Suatu hari datanglah seorang lelaki ke rumah Saidina Umar untuk mengadu masalah rumahtangganya. 

Sesampainya di halaman rumah Saidina Umar, tiba-tiba ia mendengar suara isteri Saidina Umar sedang mengeluarkan kata-kata yang menyakitkan hati. saidina Umar ketika itu sepatah pun tidak menjawab, bahkan dia hanya berdiam sahaja. Lelaki itu membatalkan hajatnya untuk mengadu masalahnya kerana mendapati Saidina Umar pun menghadapi masalah yang sama sepertimana yang ia hadapi. ia pun mengalih haluan untuk pulang ke rumahnya. 

Kedatangan lelaki itu disedari oleh Saidina Umar dan beliau pun memanggil lelaki yang telah mula melangkah separuh jalan untuk pulang itu. 

Saidina Umar pun bertanya : "apakah hajat kamu datang ke mari?". 

Jawab lelaki itu. " Ya Amirul Mukminin, tujuan kedatangan aku untuk mengadukan hal aku kepada mu. Aku sekarang ini memiliki seorang isteri  yang sentiasa menyakiti hati aku. Tapi belum pun sempat aku mengadu, aku dapati engkau pun menghadapi masalah sepertimana aku juga, maka tidak jadilah aku hendak mengadu hal itu kepada engkau." .  

Dengan tenang Saidina Umar berkata, "  Wahai saudaraku, sesungguhnya aku sabar menanggung kepahitan tingkah laku isteri ku itu kerana khidmatnya kepada aku dan rumahtangga aku sangat besar. 

Dialah yang memasakkan makanan untuk aku dan anak-anak ku dan sabar pula berhadapan dengan bahang api yang panas dalam masa membakar roti semata-mata untuk aku dan anak-anak ku. 

Dialah juga yang membasuh pakaianku. Dia juga menyusukan anak aku hingga besar. padahal semua kerja-kerja itu wajib bagi aku dan tidak wajib keatasnya. Dan lagi, dialah yang menyelamatkan aku dari pada melakukan perkara haram (zina) . 

Dia juga menjadi tempat aku berseronok-seronok dengannya ketika aku berhajat dengannya. Memandangkan hal itu , segala kesakitan yang aku tanggunggi kerana tingkahlakunya itu amat kecil kalau dibandingkan dengan segala khidmatnya kepada aku ".  

"Wahai Amirul Mukminin, demikian jugalah keadaan aku". Jelas lelaki itu. 

Saidina Umar membalas, " Sabarlah menanggung itu semua, sesungguhnya penderitaan itu cuma sekejap sahaja (kalau dibandingkan dengan penderitaan di akhirat)".

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Jiwa Kacau..

Hi bloggies,

Kali ni entry tak best, baca title pun dah boleh nampak yang diri aku tengah down giler.

Dah hampir seminggu macam ni, tak tenang. Jasad je yang masuk office, melalui hari-hari sibuk dengan kerja yang semakin bertimbun dan tiada tanda-tanda akan berkurangan *sigh*. Semangat, kemana kau pergi? Pulanglah....aku rindu

Macam-macam perkara yang berlaku. Most of the time,happy moment cant swipe away sadness that keep deep inside..terlalu jauh untuk diselam. Hilang punca. Tak tahu apa sebenarnya hala tuju. Hati...kenapa kau meracau? Fikiran...aku perlukan kau untuk lebih fokus *sigh*

Perasaan buat masa ini? Risau.Fikiran berkecamuk. Bergelora. Pelayaran hidup aku sejak akhir-akhir ini sangat tidak stabil. Adakah ini kesan daripada persekitaran aku yang menyedihkan? Keruntuhan rumahtangga kawan-kawan rapat. Ada yang putus cinta. Ada yang sakit hati. Ada yang salah faham. Semuanya menjadikan aku 'nakhoda' yang tak tentu arah. Ah..mahu sahaja aku persetankan segala-galanya tapi semuanya bagai sudah 'di tattoo' ke dalam diri...

Entahlah.....

I am minding my on business...

Kata Zur: .......

Kisah kami dan Mojo & Coco

Kisah kehadiran Mojo dan Coco ke dalam keluarga kecil kami bukan satu perkara baru. Di Wall Facebook dan inbox penuh dengan comment-comment yang berbaur hasad dengki (hahaha..). Ada yang mengeji kami kerana membuat keputusan sedemikian, tak kurang yang menyokong kami dengan kata-kata manis yang pedih menikam.

Walau apa pun kata mereka di luar sana, Mojo dan Coco telahpun secara rasminya menjadi ahli keluarga kami. Malah zara secara sukarela menggelarkan dirinya 'kakak' tatkala berbicara dengan Mojo dan Coco. Dua beradik ini hanya terkebil-kebil bila Zara mula menyanyi lagu 'Aku Cinta Aku Rindu' kepada mereka. Walaupun pada mulanya mereka agak takut-takut akhirnya kami pasti mereka telah berjaya membiasakan diri dengan suasana bising di teratak kecil kami.

Kedua anak kecil ini agak kacak. Sebab itulah kami jatuh cinta pada pandangan yang pertama. Mojo kacak bergaya dengan rambutnya yang berwarna kelabu dan berjalur hitam di tengah dan Coco pula agak unik, berambut putih. Kedua-duanya mempunyai perangai yang berbeza. Mojo lebih suka meneroka, lebih banyak berfikir tetapi Coco, lebih suka menghabiskan masa dengan bermain.

Kami bersyukur dengan kehadiran mereka, ternyata telah 'memeriahkan' lagi keluarga kami yang memang sudah sedia 'happening ' ini. Mojo, Coco, we love both of you...

Nice pics to share...

Tips Supaya Si Dia Tetap Sayang Kamu...

Hye bloggies,

How's your day so far? Mine is less busy, but still got lots of things to do. But now, i need rest (hehehe...). Crazy man, from the moment i stepped in this office till now, i have no time for myself. Today I had quick lunch alone  in the office and by 3pm, I need my coffee already because my eyes....almost 'ssssshut down'. Wish at this moment I am at home, cuddle with my kids while watching HBO...

Ladies, beside news about baby yang dibunuh sana-sini, one more news yang kerap kita terdengar ialah divorce, atau dalam bahasa standardnya: keruntuhan institusi kekeluargaan. Banyak faktor yang menjadi penyebab, malah kalau kita tanya, masing-masing akan tampil dengan alasan masing-masing. By the way, for ladies yang bergelar isteri dan adik-adik yang bakal mendirikan rumahtangga, here is few tips (yang dikutip daripada my own experience and learnt from others too). Hopefully these tips can help you girls/guys to enhance your love toward each other.

1.Sweet name for a sweet person

Dulu time bercinta biasalah kan kalau kita gunakan panggilan manja.Sayang, baby, cinta and macam-macamlah lagi. Apa kata kekalkan macam tu sampai bila-bila. You know what is the best part about calling your spouse sweet name like that? First, you spouse feel appreciated and being loved and second, nobody care and people dont feel sick of you. Plus they will be impress and adore you. Dont believe me? Try!

2. Give some space

Yes, dont too attached to your wife/husband. Give them some space for their own time, like you need your own time-off. Everybody needs time-off, although it is just for an hour. Some people not understand why i travelling so much without my husband but here is the answer. It is not because I dont love him but he gave me some space to spend time alone, with friends. That's why I can go karaoke, spa, shopping and lepak2 with friends. Try to be understand. Same goes to him. If he going out with friends, try not to sms or bbm or email or call them every 10minutes.Enough to know that they went out with whom and where they lepak2. Wish your spouse to have fun. Trust me, they will love you more..

3. Dress to kill

This is actually very important element, especially for woman. But for all man out there, please know that we also loves if you are tidy and smart and smells good athough at home. For ladies, dress to kill, especially at home. Buy nice clothes, sexy one, put on light make-up and a sweet smell perfume. Tidy up your hair, and make sure he feel lazy to going out, just because he loves to be with you . I tried this before and its work, how about you? I insist you to try this..*wink wink*

4. Be a good chef

Dont misunderstand this by point out the responsible to prepare the dish to woman only. My husband is a person who loves cooking (and no wonder i put on weight now...huhuhuhu) and me and kids especially loves whatever he cooks (except for kentang sambal because it too too much spicy lah honey). Most of the top chef in the world is men, so try it out, maybe you have a talent. For ladies, especially those who has a career, try to prepare a very nice dish on weekend. Try something that your family loves to eat. Remember ya, love comes from heart, love comes from tummy also, so you know what to do...

5. Spend time together

Everyday is honeymoon. No time? Impossible. You have time, remember that you always win if you want. Everything comes from heart. Try to find time to lunch or dinner together. Go for date, at least once a week. If you want to know how i manage it, here is the plan. Everytime we plan to go out for date, we will come early to work and on the way to go home, we will stop at the mall and spend time by window shopping or makan-makan together. Sometimes we went to spa and karaoke together, both after work because we cant do that on weekend, it's times to be with kids.

My friend have a crisis with her hubby and I suggest her to start with lunch together. The more we spend time with spouse, the more we have time to communicate and the more we communicate, the more we understand each other. Remember, knowing and loving your loves one is the whole life process so please....do not stop!

6. Love ... make love 

Sex is a very important element in marriage. Come one, why say no when it can make you feel good? I know some woman especially working wife so exhausted after 8-9hours at office and when comes to intimitate issue, you are damn lazy.Ladies, cuba ingat satu perkara, sex is like 'makan nasi' to men, so you can give 1001 reason to say no but what happen if your spouse go out and have sex with other woman? Ya ampun, then come back home with disease (?). Sanggup ke?

So, love to make love. This is the tips to remember: Treat your spouse like you are a porstitute/gigolo. Then you will understand why he/she loves you...more and more...hehehe

7. Respect and appreciate each other

I think this is the most important element. Without respect, happy marriage is just a storytale. Easy.. start with yourself. If you know how to appreciate, then you will know how to respect yourself.Identify your-self values, your capability and your weakness. Be positive and happy person. If you respect people, people will respect and appreciate you, when you know that they treat you nicely, you will be happy and happy person will bring smile not only to themselves but also to other people around them. So keep smiling...theeeeee 

Happy reading...and hope that these tips will be useful to you out there...

Breakeven...

I'm still alive but I'm barely breathing
Just praying to a God that I don't believe in
'Cause I got time while she got freedom
'Cause when a heart breaks no it don't break even

Her best days will be some of my worst
She finally met a man that's gonna put her first
While I'm wide awake she's no trouble sleeping
'Cause when a heart breaks no it don't breakeven... even... no

What am I supposed to do when the best part of me was always you,
And what am I supposed to say when I'm all choked up and you're ok
I'm falling to pieces, yeah,
I'm falling to pieces

They say bad things happen for a reason
But no wise words gonna stop the bleeding
'Cause she's moved on while I'm still grieving
And when a heart breaks no it don't breakeven even... no

What am I gonna to do when the best part of me was always you,
And what am I supposed to say when I'm all choked up and you're ok
I'm falling to pieces, yeah,
I'm falling to pieces, yeah,
I'm falling to pieces
One still in love while the other one's leaving
I'm falling to pieces
('Cause when a heart breaks no it don't breakeven)

Oh you got his heart and my heart and none of the pain
You took your suitcase, I took the blame.
Now I'm try'na make sense of what little remains ooh
'Cause you left me with no love and no love to my name.

I'm still alive but I'm barely breathing
Just prayed to a God that I don't believe in
'Cause I got time while she got freedom
'Cause when a heart breaks no it don't break
No it don't break
No it don't break even no

What am I gonna do when the best part of me was always you and
What am I supposed to say when I'm all choked up and you're ok
(Oh glad your okay now)
I'm falling to pieces yeah
(Oh I'm glad your okay)
I'm falling to pieces yeah
(One still in love while the other ones leaving)
I'm falling to pieces
('Cause when a heart breaks no it don't breakeven)

Oh it don't break even no
Oh it don't break even no
Oh it don't break even no

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Weekend is coming!!

Wohooooooooooooooooooooooo  !!

Have a very nice weekend everyone .. yes...every one!

Coretan...

Aku tak pernah tahu bagaimana untuk memulakannya

Dan aku tak pernah mahu menamatkannya

Ia datang dan akan pergi begitu sahaja

Bagaikan angin lalu yang bertiup nyaman

Hadirnya sungguh menenangkan

Tapi perginya....di luar kesedaran

Cinta,

Sukar dilafazkan, sukar ditafsirkan, sukar dibuktikan

Perasaan,

Sukar dimengertikan, sukar difahami, sukar diketepikan

Hati,

Adakala gembira, adakala pedih, adakala sedih

Dan aku?

Aku berdiri di tengah keramaian namun masih terasa asing

Aku ikhlas mengukir senyuman namun tampak kosong dan sombong

Ah..persetan semua perasaan karut ini!

Pergi kau...jangan kau kembali lagi.

Hello hari esok,

Kau akan ku sambut dengan penuh kegembiraan

Selamat tinggal semalam..

Terima kasih kerana memberikan aku pengajaran hidup

Terima kasih kerana mematangkan aku

Terima kasih kerana luka yang kau tinggalkan membuatkan aku lebih matang

Dan hari ini?

Aku adalah insan yang baru

Langkahku adalah langkah yang pasti dan yakin

Senyumku adalah dari hati yang bahagia

Aku adalah seorang wanita berani

Semalam..tak akan dapat lagi merudum perasaanku..

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